British psychiatrist R. D. Laing wrote: “When our personal worlds are rediscovered… we discover first a shambles… genitals dissociated from heart; heart severed from head; heads dissociated from genitals.”
Laing’s damning assessment of dysfunctional humanity—and the critical function of sexuality—is echoed by pioneering psychoanalyst Wilhelm Reich.
“Man is the only biological species which has destroyed its own natural sex function, and that is what ails him.”
— Wilhelm Reich, The Function of the Orgasm (1942)
Since the dawn of patriarchy, we have actively destroyed natural sexuality from suppression and repression of sex.
We are like Lego figures. Detachable heads, torsos and legs, made of plastic, unfeeling and imperishable. We live in a Lego world where plastic faces with fixed smiles grin inanely at each other. Everyone pretends that, like Lego figures, they have no genitals.
Our dysfunctional sexuality is reflected back to us in countless ways in a society that is simultaneously sex-avoidant and sex-obsessed.
Yet the clues to our psychosexual devastation are everywhere—if only you know where to look. From porn categories that mimic traditional sexual taboos to the information hidden in every single pornography image, the stepping stones to holistic sexuality are there for those with the courage to follow them.
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Resources
Blogs
Free blogs about how shame poisons human sexuality. Click on the image below.
Free blogs on pornography. Click on the image below.
Free courses
Useful background information on unconscious shame.
Paid courses
Holistic wellbeing is only possible when we unite our heads, hearts, and genitals.
A low-cost course focusing on humanity’s core shame, our sexuality.
My flagship course on root cause resolution of porn addiction.
Books
A super-deep dive into the invisible prison of sexual shame.
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